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was higher in the female sample, while the ASEX scores were higher in
the control group than in the BDSM practitioner women. It is observed
that there are difficulties in sex drive, arousal, and vaginal lubrication
functions in women in the control group. It is reported that during BDSM
practices, women may have less anxiety about their bodies and sexual
performance, express themselves more easily and freely, and may have
less difficulty in maintaining arousal (13). This may explain the lower
scores of sexual dysfunctions in BDSM practitioner women in our study.
In the male participants group, the probability of sexual dysfunction was
higher in the BDSM practitioner group. In the BDSM group, difficulty
in the ability to reach orgasm and satisfaction from orgasm functions is
significant. To understand whether a sexual problem can be considered
as sexual dysfunction in the BDSM group participating in our study, it is
necessary to first understand whether it causes distress in participants.
In the study of Pascoal et al. (2015), although premature orgasm and
anorgasmia were equally disturbing individual sexual problems in both
BDSM and non-BDSM male groups, no significant difference was found
between the two groups (13). BDSM activities can be based on various
plays in which intercourse or orgasm are not in the foreground (13,19).
Early orgasm may cause more problems in the BDSM group than in the
control group, as it may interrupt the scene in the BDSM group due to
the difficulties experienced by men in the refractory period in arousal
after orgasm. Therefore, premature ejaculation in men participating in
our study may not be desired in BDSM practices, so ejaculation may take
a long time, and the orgasm experienced before the planned moment
may cause dissatisfaction because it interrupts the activity. Further studies
are needed to understand the reasons for the described difficulty in
ejaculation in BDSM practitioner men.
According to the reports of the online participants, no difference was
found between the groups in terms of physical and psychiatric illness and
past suicide attempts in this study. The belief that psychiatric disorders
are more common in BDSM practitioners has been disproved by studies
showing that their psychological functioning and attachment styles were
not different from the general population (8). The results of our study
supports the opinion that being a BDSM practitioner does not increase
the susceptibility to psychiatric disorders. In our study, participants were
asked about their psychiatric background and no scale and interview
were applied to detect any psychopathology. This is an important
weakness of our study. Studies including more detailed psychiatric
interviews are needed to discover the frequency of psychopathology in
BDSM practitioners.
In our study, the reported rate of sexual violence in the past was higher
in the BDSM group than in the control group. Although studies suggest
that there is no relationship between trauma and BDSM behavior (20,21);
7.9% of the males reported sexual abuse compared to 1–3% in the general
population in a study investigating the history of childhood abuse in
BDSM practitioners; and in women, it was found to be 22.7% and 6–8%,
respectively (22). The rates of discrimination against sexual minorities are
high (23). Discrimination against BDSM practitioners due to their non-
normative sexual practices can be similarly high. Larger-scale studies are
needed to elucidate the relationship between trauma and BDSM.
According to our results, more than half of the BDSM practitioners
reported that they were discriminated due to their sexual practices and
sexuality during a medical/psychological assistance they received in the
past. Moreover, most of the BDSM group stated that they postponed
seeking medical/psychological help because they thought that they could
not talk about their sexuality comfortably. Waldura et al. (2016) state that
less than half of kink-oriented patients receiving healthcare can talk about
their sexual activities with healthcare providers because they are afraid of
being stigmatized (11). Increased stigma by healthcare providers leads
to non-disclosure of kink involvement and delay in seeking care (24). If
healthcare professionals gain sufficient knowledge about the practices of
BDSM practitioners, it may improve the discrimination experienced by
patients with BDSM practitioners in accessing healthcare.
In the context of BDSM, participants ideally interact voluntarily with
predetermined consent based on a mutual understanding of what
activities will take place (2). Therefore, BDSM communities care about
the rules regarding the boundaries of safe and consensual BDSM (25). In
our study, BDSM practitioners reported talking about their sexual desires
and expectations more comfortably with their partners, while there
was no significant difference between the two groups about getting the
consent of their partners during intercourse, taking precautions regarding
sexually transmitted infections and contraception.
All of the BDSM practitioners participating in the research are at least high
school graduates and most of them are working. The number of single
people in the BDSM group is higher than it is in the control group. It is
stated that 17.6% of the participants who practice BDSM describe their
relationships as non-monogamy, 21% as dating, and 15.1% as polyamory
(21). The high number of single people in the BDSM group may be due
to the fact that they do not prefer monogamous relationships. The age
of first sexual intercourse was lower in BDSM practitioners. This result
is consistent with research showing that BDSM practitioners experience
more sexuality throughout their lives and have sex at an earlier age (26).
Although there was no difference between the groups in terms of age,
gender, and education, when considered in terms of sexual orientation, it
was seen that the rate of those who stated that they were homosexual or
bisexual among BDSM practitioners was higher than the control group. In
a large-scale study conducted in Australia by Richters et al. (2008), BDSM
practices were found to be more common among homosexuals and
bisexuals (20). In an online study, it was stated that almost half of those
who stated that they were masochists were bisexual or homosexual (17).
The struggle against the stigma that claims that queer sexuality is wrong
can be cited as a factor in the easier acceptance and spread of BDSM
practices within the queer community (27).
This study has some limitations. Participants were gathered through the
internet using forums and social media accounts. We can guess that the
high education levels in the study is a function of the online surveys,
since people with higher education will be more likely to respond to
online surveys. Accessing and effectively using internet is more common
in people with higher education. Since internet use and access to these
areas are easier for socioeconomically advantaged individuals (13), it may
be possible for this group to reach the study. Since the data is collected
online, there may be problems with the reliability of the participants and
the answers. This may affect the reliability of the study results. To minimize
this problem, we did not put the BDSM form on a general website and
carefully shared it on a limited platform with BDSM practitioners. Also,
we kindly asked the participants to share this form only with their BDSM
practitioner friends. Because the study is an online survey, rates of attrition
is not known exactly. In the advertisement of the form prepared for the
control group, it was stated that the study was about sexual practices,
and sexual dysfunction was not mentioned. However, it may still have
caused a slight increase in the participation of individuals with sexual
dysfunction. Since this is the first study conducted on the BDSM group
in Türkiye, using an anonymous online questionnaire has helped us
reach a difficult-to-reach group more widely. Although the participants
were not asked for their identity information, some participants may
have wanted to refrain from participating in the study due to security
concerns. BDSM was defined in the informed consent form and it was
stated that those who defined themselves as BDSM practitioners should
fill out the study form, but the difficulties in determining the boundaries
of BDSM may have been confusing for the participants. While only