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You will not get herpes from toilet seats, bedding,
or swimming pools, or from touching objects
around you such as silverware, soap, or towels. If
you have additional questions about how herpes
is spread, consider discussing your concerns with a
healthcare provider.
How can I reduce my risk of getting genital
herpes?
The only way to avoid STDs is to not have vaginal,
anal, or oral sex.
If you are sexually active, you can do the following
things to lower your chances of getting genital herpes:
• Be in a long-term mutually monogamous
relationship with a partner who is not infected
with an STD (e.g., a partner who has been tested
and has negative STD test results);
• Use latex condoms the right way every time you
have sex.
Be aware that not all herpes sores occur in areas that
are covered by a latex condom. Also, herpes virus can
be released (shed) from areas of the skin that do not
have a visible herpes sore. For these reasons, condoms
may not fully protect you from getting herpes.
If you are in a relationship with a person known
to have genital herpes, you can lower your risk of
getting genital herpes if:
• Your partner takes an anti-herpes medication
every day. This is something your partner should
discuss with his or her doctor.
• You avoid having vaginal, anal, or oral sex when
your partner has herpes symptoms (i.e., when
your partner is having an outbreak).
I’m pregnant. How could genital herpes
affect my baby?
If you are pregnant and have genital herpes, it is very
important for you to go to prenatal care visits. Tell your
doctor if you have ever had symptoms of, or have been
diagnosed with, genital herpes. Also tell your doctor if
you have ever been exposed to genital herpes. There
is some research that suggests that genital herpes
infection may lead to miscarriage, or could make it
more likely for you to deliver your baby too early.
Herpes infection can be passed from you to your
unborn child before birth but is more commonly
passed to your infant during delivery. This can
lead to a potentially deadly infection in your baby
(called neonatal herpes). It is important that you
avoid getting herpes during pregnancy. If you are
pregnant and have genital herpes, you may be
offered anti-herpes medicine towards the end of
your pregnancy. This medicine may reduce your risk
of having signs or symptoms of genital herpes at the
time of delivery. At the time of delivery, your doctor
should carefully examine you for herpes sores. If you
have herpes symptoms at delivery, a ‘C-section’ is
usually performed.
How do I know if I have genital herpes?
Most people who have genital herpes have no
symptoms, or have very mild symptoms. You may
not notice mild symptoms or you may mistake
them for another skin condition, such as a pimple or
ingrown hair. Because of this, most people who have
herpes do not know it.
Herpes sores usually appear as one or more blisters on
or around the genitals, rectum or mouth. The blisters
break and leave painful sores that may take a week or
more to heal. These symptoms are sometimes called
“having an outbreak.” The first time someone has an
outbreak they may also have flu-like symptoms such
as fever, body aches, or swollen glands.
People who experience an initial outbreak of herpes can
have repeated outbreaks, especially if they are infected
with HSV-2. Repeat outbreaks are usually shorter and less
severe than the first outbreak. Although the infection
stays in the body for the rest of your life, the number of
outbreaks may decrease over time.
You should be examined by your doctor if you notice
any of these symptoms or if your partner has an STD
or symptoms of an STD. STD symptoms can include an
unusual sore, a smelly genital discharge, burning when
urinating, or (for women) bleeding between periods.
How will my doctor know if I have herpes?
Your healthcare provider may diagnose genital herpes
by simply looking at your symptoms. Providers can
also take a sample from the sore(s) and test it. In
certain situations, a blood test may be used to look for
herpes antibodies. Have an honest and open talk with
your health care provider and ask whether you should
be tested for herpes or other STDs.
Please note: A herpes blood test can help determine if
you have herpes infection. It cannot tell you who gave
you the infection or how long you have been infected.