Action plan
The next time I get really angry the triggers are likely to be:
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I will try and avoid these triggers by
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I will know that I am getting angry because I will notice the signs:
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I will try to keep calm by
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If I cannot avoid the triggers I will think differently about them. My thoughts will be:
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I will know that my behaviour is better because instead of:
shouting kicking throwing things swearing damaging things fighting
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(circle the one/s below that fit your behaviour or add your own)
I will walk away go to a special place find someone to talk to
take some exercise count to ten
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I will avoid the obstacles to changing my behaviour by:
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The people I will need to help me succeed with this plan are:
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Signed............................................Name...........................................Date ......................
Adrian Faupel et al. (1998) Anger Management – A Practical Guide. London: David Fulton Publishers.
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